Friday, November 25, 2011

Book Talk

I recently read an Ann Packer novel for the first time, The Dive From Clausen's Pier.  The majority of the story was set in Madison, and starts with a tragic accident that leaves Mike paralyzed.  His girlfriend, who was already beginning to distance herself prior to the accident, is torn between leaving for good and staying.  There isn't a simple answer.  I think many of us can identify with having to make significant choices that hold the possibility - or even the certainty - of hurting someone we love.  The Dive From Clausen's Pier is a story of heartbreak, perceived betrayal, and a physical and emotional journey to find an answer that simply, and sadly, may not exist.  Packer's story read, to me, like those of Kristen Hannah and Anita Shreve. 
 The Language of Flowers by Vanessa Diffenbaugh is, by far, one of the very best book I have read in a long time.  I was sad when I realized I had turned the last page, because I just didn't want it to end.  This will be my feeble attempt to summarize this beautiful story, but know that I'm barely scratching the surface.  Based on the idea that in the Victorian Era, flowers were exchanged with a specific message in mind, this is the story of Victoria, a foster child who finds herself eighteen, emancipated from "the system", and without anything but a small box of belongings.  As Victoria looks for her place, both literally and figuratively, she remembers her year with Elizabeth, her would-be adoptive mother.  She recalls the circumstances that ultimately left her on her own, and finds herself struggling to find wings without roots.  Embedded throughout is the language of flowers, in which Victoria ultimately finds her purpose.  Although you will cry through most of it, you'll fall in love with this story.

Paula McLain's The Paris Wife has been on my to-read list for a while, and now that I've read it, I hardly know where to begin.  While this is the fictional portrayal of the marriage between Ernest Hemingway and his first wife, Hadley, the people and events were real.  The author did take liberties in trying to delve more deeply into the characters' thoughts and emotions, but used myriad resources to relay much of the truth.  The Paris Wife is an absolutely heartbreaking love story.  Hemingway fought many personal demons throughout his life, which ultimately led to his suicide in 1961.  Hadley was on the verge of becoming an old maid when she met Ernest in the early 1920's in Chicago, and what they had together changed both of their lives in every measurable and immeasurable way.  As a reader, I both loved and hated them - individually and as a pair.  As Hadley was facing the ultimate betrayal at the hands of Ernest, I wanted her to be strong, pack her bags, gather their son, and leave him high and dry.  I wanted her to be a character she wasn't, but because Hadley was more than just a character in her lifetime, I had to let the real story unfold before a conclusion presented itself.  I loved this book for the story it told; I like to think about Hemingway, F. Scott Fitzgerald, Gertrude Stein, and others who wrote some of our most beloved classics sharing drinks over dinner.  And I loved this story because - despite the heartbreak that ensued - Hemingway would write later in his life that he "would rather have died than fallen in love with anyone but Hadley."  Poignant and nearly perfect.

"No matter how busy you may think you are, you must find time for reading, or surrender yourself to self-chosen ignorance.”
Confucius

Thursday, November 24, 2011

Thankful ...

... for this little turkey.
 Happy Thanksgiving!

Wednesday, November 23, 2011

Aaaaand...BREAK!

I'm on Thanksgiving break.  Hallelujah!  We had a two-day week that ended with a student vs. staff volleyball game yesterday afternoon.  Needless to say, I wasn't the MVP, but I got my hands on the ball a few times and had a lot of fun.  The students didn't boo me, so that was a good sign.

I left work much earlier than usual yesterday afternoon and spent a couple of hours making a huge dent in my Christmas shopping list before meeting my book club friends for dinner.  I was able to check quite a few items off of my shopping list.  One highlight was seeing tents and grills set up outside of Best Buy.  I mean, I like big TV's and bargains as much as the next person, but sleep on a sidewalk and skip Thanksgiving just to get one?  I think not.  Anyway, it was nice to have a couple of hours to peruse different stores in search of the perfect gifts.  My last stop before dinner was World Market, where I picked up an old school Advent calendar for Sara.  I know she'll love it this year.  My sister and I used to look so forward to the Advent calendars my mom bought each year.  It's just a fun tradition, and the fact that it makes eating chocolate at the start of each day acceptable is just the cherry on top.

It was fun to catch up with my book club.  Due to schedule conflicts, I hadn't been since August, and was really looking forward to the social time.  We shared lots of laughs, a couple more serious conversations, good food and bevs, and a little book talk.

Today Sara I went to get the last of the necessary items for tomorrow's feast.  Today I'm making chex mix (which might be gone by tomorrow), pumpkin pie (which won't be as good as my sister's, but hopefully close), and deviled eggs (which I'll probably regret).  That leaves me time and oven space tomorrow morning to finish the stuffing, potatoes, and turkey.  I love waking up on Thanksgiving and watching the Macy's Thanksgiving Day Parade, and then anticipating a day filled with good food, good company, football, and maybe a nap.  Over the rest of the weekend we will get our Christmas lights hung and tree put up ... I look forward to this all year!

Tonight I'm going to Zumba, and I'll have to work extra hard so I can save myself some guilt tomorrow.  Hope you all have a very Happy Thanksgiving!

Thursday, November 17, 2011

It's Going Around

I'm getting a taste this week of the head/sinus/general-body-ache that seems to be going around.  I probably need more sleep.  And I'd be getting more if I could sleep, but this junk makes it hard.  At least it's almost Friday.

We woke up an hour late this morning.  Oh, the panic!  I know you know the feeling.  But ... we were up, showered, made up (hair and all), and out the door in twenty-five minutes.  It was a team effort, and Steve and I were pretty proud of ourselves.  I think we set a new family record.

Tonight I'm making my mom's famous Mashed Sweet Potato Bake for Sara's Thanksgiving feast at school tomorrow.  (I'm trying not to breathe on it.)  When I mentioned her Thanksgiving feast, Sara said, "Thanksgiving ... oh, great!"  It's just the best time of year, and even better with a toddler.

All week I'd been wondering when 103.7 would start playing Christmas Carols.  They hadn't made an announcement because they wanted to keep it a surprise, but when I got in the car after work tonight, there they were, waiting to greet me.  Any and all of my drive time becomes more pleasant when the carols are playing.

We had Christmas pictures taken last weekend, and I'm anxious to see them.  I may give you a sneak peak once I have them.  I've already browsed through the card selection at shutterfly.com, so now all I need is for the pics to arrive.

We're headed to Kansas this weekend to pay a visit to my sisters-in-law and their families.  I love watching Sara play with her cousins (she's the oldest of the youngest four - all girls!); they have so much fun together.  We'll come back Sunday for just a couple days of work before our Thanksgiving break.  And a break, my friends, is something for which I am incredibly thankful.

Have a great weekend!

Wednesday, November 16, 2011

Wordless Wednesday

Friday, November 11, 2011

Anecdote: Getting Skinny

This particular story deserves a spot in my memory via this blog.  Last Saturday morning, as Sara and I were walking into the rec center, our conversation went like this:

Sara: "Mom, are you going to come into the play area with me?"
Me: "No, Mommy is going to go upstairs to work on getting skinny."  (Sidebar: I hate it when I say this type of thing to my impressionable little girl, but sometimes I let such phrases slip without thinking or filtering.)
Sara: "Okay.  When you are done getting skinny you can come get me."

Either she thinks such a feat is incredibly easy or she was prepared to play for a very long time.  Regardless, I got a little laugh out of her logic and her sweet innocence.

Monday, November 7, 2011

Rambling

Halloween turned out to be quite an eventful time for us this year, as evidenced by the number of blog and Facebook posts that referenced the holiday.  Sara's favorite candy choices this year include Smarties, Skittles, Starbursts, and "chocolate balls" aka Whoppers.  She is definitely my child.  Now Halloween has been over for a week, and Sara reminds us everyday that, "Halloween is over.  Next it's Christmas Day."  We're working on learning about Thanksgiving.  So far Sara knows that that is when we eat turkey.  She's on the right track.

I'm home earlier than planned tonight from the last 7th grade football game of the season.  It was called early due to severe thunderstorms.  I'm not complaining.  I got home in time to tuck my girl into bed, and now I'm catching up on the blog and the DVR (current feature presentation: Sister Wives ... anyone else addicted to this show?  I know it wasn't on my original fall must-watch TV list, but now I just can't delete it without watching.  I'm fascinated.).  In other TV news, I dropped Pan Am.  Although I've continued to hear good things, I just didn't find myself engrossed enough to devote an hour each week to the show.  Shockingly (or maybe not), we're on the fence on The Office.  We keep watching because the DVR has it set to record each week, but it's just not that funny anymore and I don't think we'd miss it at all if we walked away now.  After more then seven years together, I'm not sure how we'll go about ending this relationship.

Steve ran his first half marathon over the weekend, and he finished in about two hours and sixteen minutes.  I am proud of him, and was so excited to see him cross the finish line.  While I'm still not feeling the urge to run such distances, I did finally get a membership at the Wylie Rec Center and I feel myself getting back into a routine where I want to workout.  It feels really good, and I love that Sara enjoys going, too.  Every time I have gone to pick her up from the play area after a workout, she has left very reluctantly asking when we get to go back.  Nothing makes you feel like a good parent like your kid not wanting to come home with you.

I'm loving my iPhone 4S.  I can't believe we didn't make the switch sooner, and now that we have, I don't think we'll ever go back.  For the first time in a long time, I'm not embarrassed to take my phone out in a crowd.  At least five people I work with nearly died of shock when they saw that I had finally upgraded from my stone-age slider phone with no touch screen or internet.  That's only a slight exaggeration.

I'm going to wrap it up for tonight.  After I get things in order for tomorrow, I plan to fall asleep to the sounds of the storm.  Waking up to the same storm tomorrow morning won't be nearly as pleasant.